I’ve had this idea in my head since i can remember, what is life without all the structures we are used to? Being that work, social life, a life mate, family, health and hobbies. Can you be happy without one of those? Yes i believe so, but i also believe that you can focus on obtaining more when these fields, which i started to consider primary necessities, are already fulfilled.
We can also diverge on these subject and consider all the factors inside each of these topics that should be present, for instance the friends and all people surrounding you would ideally be supportive and understanding and work should be fulfilling in it’s objectives. BUT, let’s assume for all that these are checked, and grasp the menthal freedom that this feeling provides to reach into different fields of your life, the possibilities are theoritically endless.
ANYWAY, no to diverge, here are some things i strive to achieve in each one of those:
- Work wise – don’t get stuck, evolve, learn more and better yourself, acquiring more responsabilities and more freedom at the same time
- Family – mantain a healthy relationship, don’t allow yourself to get lost in the midst of what your family wants for you but listen to their opinions, value them and determine what’s best for you
- Health – you only have one body so take care of it, in this you have three pilars: exercise, food and sleep. These are the basics, there’s so much you can add to this!
- Food – Struggled a LOT with these for years and years, but i seem to have found the key to unlock balance. I’ll make a separate post about this BUT i can tell you that unruled balance and intuition are the keys.
- Exercise – for you to feel well and be at your best immunity game, just move :), this isn’t for the way you look but for the way you feel in your body.
- Sleep – everyone loves this, being a little or alot sooo yeah
- The Social – friends are your family too, when i moved out at 18 yo, i created my new family away from home, they’ve saved my menthal health so many times i can’t begin to explain how important they are to me except with the first phrase
- Hobbies – Your life cannot resume to work, family, home, i mean maybe it can, mine can’t ahahah, if i don’t have hobbies i feel like my life is being waisted, i have a hunger for new knowledge, conquering objectives and constant change
(Removes PINK glasses)
These are all important to me, but it’s a fact that there are moments it all goes to shit, the folks are calling saying you don’t care anymore cause you haven’t called in a week, you haven’t been to the gym in two weeks and your diet is composed by fats and carbs.
That is OK, no one is perfect and absolutely no one should strive for constant perfection, if you strain yourself with the belief that you have to be on the wagon for all things, you won’t be able to adapt to the pririties of that specific moment and that may lead to all things falling of the wagon instead of just 2 or 3.
Well, that’s about it for now, Thanks for reading.
Carolina Uncomplicated 